Sunday, August 28, 2011

Tidbits [1]

So here is the first installment of the list of 30 tidbits I'm going to start tackling.

5 Ways to Win my Heart

There are a lot of important relationship qualities, but here are a few that has more to do with the winning of the heart.

1. Thoughtfulness. It's the little things that mean the most. Truly.
2. Resolution. Work together to resolve conflict without hurting feelings. Forgive and ask forgiveness. If a disagreement can end through non aggressive conversation, there is a lot to be said about how each opposing part cares for the other.
3. Respect & Admiration. If you don't respect each other, you can't selflessly love one another. Be proud of each other's achievements and admire the good in each other. And if you think it, say it. Don't be too proud to share real feelings.
4. Affection. I'll admit it, I'm a touchy-feely kind of person. Hugs, being close, holding hands, gentle kisses. They all make my heart flutter.
5. Humility. Pride is probably the most unattractive trait, so the ability to be humble is important. It says a lot about the character of a person's heart.

What are some of the things that win you over? Hope you all enjoyed your weekend!

1 comment:

  1. what a great list! several of the ones on your list are ones that win me over too! :)

    i also love honesty and a great sense of humor ... someone who can make me laugh until i cry or pee my pants, hehe.

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